H0LL4 FO A D$LLA!

It's so disturbing how when a girl walks in public the intensity of VR (visual rape) guys put out. Seriously boys we are not pieces of meat, we are humans just like you(: Even on myspace, facebook, and Hi5 it's like that! They'll message you and say, "ay lil mama what up, how you doing?" Seriously, could you get any more corny? Women want to be respected not feel like we an object of society. Especially when a guy speaks the way they do, like I stated above, you can really tell the type of guy they are. Do you guys really not have the guts to put out a simple comment in a suitable manner?

If a guy approaches me that way I laugh. It really is an extremly amusing thing!

say no to chicas.

Through all my years I have seen girls other than me to be the most conniving, uncivilized creatures to walk these grounds. Never have I met a female who can be real and nice. All girls do is either pretend to be your friend or they actually are your friends and turn on you and spread crap.

Examples: They take your boyfriends, lie to you, sabotage you, yeah pretty much the whole nine yards.

It's really so difficult to find such a true girl friend these days; lucky for me I've had two of my best girl friends since I was little and never has that changed. One since I was a baby and the other since elementary. Girls like I explained above are the reasons why being friends with the guys is so much of an ease. I am a girl that hangs with the dudes, I can lay back and just go with the flow, most girls can't. Also, when your "one of the guys" you see from their perspective, in which helps you when it comes to relationships because if you think how the guy thinks then you get all the good ends.

taking a hit

There is a difference from arguing and a difference from verbal and physical abuse. No girl deserves it as well as no guy. 25-40% of teens are abused by their partner every day. Signs of abuse are: making you contain a low self-esteem, visual harm, threats, demanding, and high jealousy.

Abusive relationships have risky results, either a boy sees his father or any adult role model beat on another woman and thinks its alright and when they are older they will do it too or know the difference from right and wrong. Also the girl will always be a pushover and take it or they will become stronger and take no garbage from anyone.

Another example of relationship abuse is Chris Brown & Rhianna.

If you or a friend are being abused go to your parents, police, teacher, someone who could really help you.

Divorce

This takes a big impact on a teenagers life, they feel like they need to choose between one parent and are stuck between the fueds along with the divorce. Back then divorces weren't common, but saldy now it is a norm. At our age 16+ divorce starts to interfere with our everyday lives- work, school, our social and emotional lives. Some kids take it so harsh that their whole personality turns dark, divorce messes people up in the head.

Half of U.S marriages end in divorce and cause a huge financial strain on both the mother and father. Teens should never feel like the divorce is their fault, its just that the marriage isn't going in the way their parents expected it to go.

The only way to keep a divorce run smooth is talk out the differences and keep everything at a cool pace with no arguing so there is a good amount of peace between the family.

Driving

Driving is a privilege that comes with a lot of responsibility. So many teens abuse the fact that they have their license or their car; they speed, cut off, simply just ignore the rules. I admit I tend to be a bad driver at times but not like anything I have seen within my friends.

If parents could choose a time for their kids to get their license in Florida, they would probably choose the age that New York chose, 18 years old. There were 6,420,000 car accidents in 2005, think of how many there was this year.

Teens are more concerned of getting from point A to point B and where the party is more over the fact of the guy who just cut infront of them or that they just hit someone.

tat-tat-tatted up.. & piercings too!

I can not explain how scary and how much of an adreniline rush getting piercings and tattoos are! It is insane i swear! I have no tattoos but I plan on it. Yet some people go extremely over board to where its kind of creepy. I know a girl with 12 tattoos in all the wrong places! I heard some girl died because she got her belly button pierced and it led to an extreme infection. Even worse, my sister got a tattoo and she had staf infection bumps because of the certain ink they used. Tatts and piercings are super cool but super dangerous.

what is even more idiotic is some of these tattoo parlors don't even ID people. Thats how a law suit starts people; open your eyes!!

Daaaa clubbbb!

Teens now are trying to buy fake IDS just to go to the clubs and drink. I used to walk into the club with no issues what so ever since i was in 9th grade. I actually met my ex-boyfriend there ha! Yet now the clubs have gotten pretty scary, you can't just go with your self around there. You seriously have to have someone walking around with you for protection. There are some major freakazoids up in the clubs, they don't take no for an answer. They had to shut down nocturnal one time and raise the strictness on entry because a girl died and two girls were raped. its sick! I used to love going clubbing at the 18+ every weekend, but it is such a waste of money. After a while you get so tired of the same scenerio all the time, i don't know how my sister does it everyweek.

People under the age are spending up to $150+ just to get a fake ID to go clubbing with the perves in there. it's so sensless; you have to tip the bouncer $10-20 if your underage, pay admission, your drinks, and the 4 am food stop across Nocturnal at Gold Rush. When people talk about clubbing I just see it as garbage and pitiful ever since my friend died because of a fake ID and clubbing.

I won't lie, it has its bad and good characteristics to it but I think it would pretty sick to own my own club when I'm older. Insane in the membraneeee! woohoo!