Thursday, March 19, 2009

H0LL4 FO A D$LLA!

It's so disturbing how when a girl walks in public the intensity of VR (visual rape) guys put out. Seriously boys we are not pieces of meat, we are humans just like you(: Even on myspace, facebook, and Hi5 it's like that! They'll message you and say, "ay lil mama what up, how you doing?" Seriously, could you get any more corny? Women want to be respected not feel like we an object of society. Especially when a guy speaks the way they do, like I stated above, you can really tell the type of guy they are. Do you guys really not have the guts to put out a simple comment in a suitable manner?

If a guy approaches me that way I laugh. It really is an extremly amusing thing!

say no to chicas.

Through all my years I have seen girls other than me to be the most conniving, uncivilized creatures to walk these grounds. Never have I met a female who can be real and nice. All girls do is either pretend to be your friend or they actually are your friends and turn on you and spread crap.

Examples: They take your boyfriends, lie to you, sabotage you, yeah pretty much the whole nine yards.

It's really so difficult to find such a true girl friend these days; lucky for me I've had two of my best girl friends since I was little and never has that changed. One since I was a baby and the other since elementary. Girls like I explained above are the reasons why being friends with the guys is so much of an ease. I am a girl that hangs with the dudes, I can lay back and just go with the flow, most girls can't. Also, when your "one of the guys" you see from their perspective, in which helps you when it comes to relationships because if you think how the guy thinks then you get all the good ends.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

taking a hit

There is a difference from arguing and a difference from verbal and physical abuse. No girl deserves it as well as no guy. 25-40% of teens are abused by their partner every day. Signs of abuse are: making you contain a low self-esteem, visual harm, threats, demanding, and high jealousy.

Abusive relationships have risky results, either a boy sees his father or any adult role model beat on another woman and thinks its alright and when they are older they will do it too or know the difference from right and wrong. Also the girl will always be a pushover and take it or they will become stronger and take no garbage from anyone.

Another example of relationship abuse is Chris Brown & Rhianna.

If you or a friend are being abused go to your parents, police, teacher, someone who could really help you.

Divorce

This takes a big impact on a teenagers life, they feel like they need to choose between one parent and are stuck between the fueds along with the divorce. Back then divorces weren't common, but saldy now it is a norm. At our age 16+ divorce starts to interfere with our everyday lives- work, school, our social and emotional lives. Some kids take it so harsh that their whole personality turns dark, divorce messes people up in the head.

Half of U.S marriages end in divorce and cause a huge financial strain on both the mother and father. Teens should never feel like the divorce is their fault, its just that the marriage isn't going in the way their parents expected it to go.

The only way to keep a divorce run smooth is talk out the differences and keep everything at a cool pace with no arguing so there is a good amount of peace between the family.

Driving

Driving is a privilege that comes with a lot of responsibility. So many teens abuse the fact that they have their license or their car; they speed, cut off, simply just ignore the rules. I admit I tend to be a bad driver at times but not like anything I have seen within my friends.

If parents could choose a time for their kids to get their license in Florida, they would probably choose the age that New York chose, 18 years old. There were 6,420,000 car accidents in 2005, think of how many there was this year.

Teens are more concerned of getting from point A to point B and where the party is more over the fact of the guy who just cut infront of them or that they just hit someone.