H0LL4 FO A D$LLA!

It's so disturbing how when a girl walks in public the intensity of VR (visual rape) guys put out. Seriously boys we are not pieces of meat, we are humans just like you(: Even on myspace, facebook, and Hi5 it's like that! They'll message you and say, "ay lil mama what up, how you doing?" Seriously, could you get any more corny? Women want to be respected not feel like we an object of society. Especially when a guy speaks the way they do, like I stated above, you can really tell the type of guy they are. Do you guys really not have the guts to put out a simple comment in a suitable manner?

If a guy approaches me that way I laugh. It really is an extremly amusing thing!

say no to chicas.

Through all my years I have seen girls other than me to be the most conniving, uncivilized creatures to walk these grounds. Never have I met a female who can be real and nice. All girls do is either pretend to be your friend or they actually are your friends and turn on you and spread crap.

Examples: They take your boyfriends, lie to you, sabotage you, yeah pretty much the whole nine yards.

It's really so difficult to find such a true girl friend these days; lucky for me I've had two of my best girl friends since I was little and never has that changed. One since I was a baby and the other since elementary. Girls like I explained above are the reasons why being friends with the guys is so much of an ease. I am a girl that hangs with the dudes, I can lay back and just go with the flow, most girls can't. Also, when your "one of the guys" you see from their perspective, in which helps you when it comes to relationships because if you think how the guy thinks then you get all the good ends.

taking a hit

There is a difference from arguing and a difference from verbal and physical abuse. No girl deserves it as well as no guy. 25-40% of teens are abused by their partner every day. Signs of abuse are: making you contain a low self-esteem, visual harm, threats, demanding, and high jealousy.

Abusive relationships have risky results, either a boy sees his father or any adult role model beat on another woman and thinks its alright and when they are older they will do it too or know the difference from right and wrong. Also the girl will always be a pushover and take it or they will become stronger and take no garbage from anyone.

Another example of relationship abuse is Chris Brown & Rhianna.

If you or a friend are being abused go to your parents, police, teacher, someone who could really help you.

Divorce

This takes a big impact on a teenagers life, they feel like they need to choose between one parent and are stuck between the fueds along with the divorce. Back then divorces weren't common, but saldy now it is a norm. At our age 16+ divorce starts to interfere with our everyday lives- work, school, our social and emotional lives. Some kids take it so harsh that their whole personality turns dark, divorce messes people up in the head.

Half of U.S marriages end in divorce and cause a huge financial strain on both the mother and father. Teens should never feel like the divorce is their fault, its just that the marriage isn't going in the way their parents expected it to go.

The only way to keep a divorce run smooth is talk out the differences and keep everything at a cool pace with no arguing so there is a good amount of peace between the family.

Driving

Driving is a privilege that comes with a lot of responsibility. So many teens abuse the fact that they have their license or their car; they speed, cut off, simply just ignore the rules. I admit I tend to be a bad driver at times but not like anything I have seen within my friends.

If parents could choose a time for their kids to get their license in Florida, they would probably choose the age that New York chose, 18 years old. There were 6,420,000 car accidents in 2005, think of how many there was this year.

Teens are more concerned of getting from point A to point B and where the party is more over the fact of the guy who just cut infront of them or that they just hit someone.

tat-tat-tatted up.. & piercings too!

I can not explain how scary and how much of an adreniline rush getting piercings and tattoos are! It is insane i swear! I have no tattoos but I plan on it. Yet some people go extremely over board to where its kind of creepy. I know a girl with 12 tattoos in all the wrong places! I heard some girl died because she got her belly button pierced and it led to an extreme infection. Even worse, my sister got a tattoo and she had staf infection bumps because of the certain ink they used. Tatts and piercings are super cool but super dangerous.

what is even more idiotic is some of these tattoo parlors don't even ID people. Thats how a law suit starts people; open your eyes!!

Daaaa clubbbb!

Teens now are trying to buy fake IDS just to go to the clubs and drink. I used to walk into the club with no issues what so ever since i was in 9th grade. I actually met my ex-boyfriend there ha! Yet now the clubs have gotten pretty scary, you can't just go with your self around there. You seriously have to have someone walking around with you for protection. There are some major freakazoids up in the clubs, they don't take no for an answer. They had to shut down nocturnal one time and raise the strictness on entry because a girl died and two girls were raped. its sick! I used to love going clubbing at the 18+ every weekend, but it is such a waste of money. After a while you get so tired of the same scenerio all the time, i don't know how my sister does it everyweek.

People under the age are spending up to $150+ just to get a fake ID to go clubbing with the perves in there. it's so sensless; you have to tip the bouncer $10-20 if your underage, pay admission, your drinks, and the 4 am food stop across Nocturnal at Gold Rush. When people talk about clubbing I just see it as garbage and pitiful ever since my friend died because of a fake ID and clubbing.

I won't lie, it has its bad and good characteristics to it but I think it would pretty sick to own my own club when I'm older. Insane in the membraneeee! woohoo!

Drugs and a-a-alcohol

Drugs and alcohol have become an immense need for teens now, I have especially recognized it all throughout high-school. Kids are abusing more drugs as of Marijuana, Ecstacy, Triple C's, and more; even alcohol has become so addictive to the teenage race. They do it because they want to look cool and fit in with their peers.

I've known one person who has died from an Oxy Cotton over dose as well as a few from drinking excessivly. It is so sad to see drugs and alcohol rule over peoples lives. Yes, you choose to use and abuse but you should be the bigger person and be above it. Alcohol and drugs are something teenagers look foward to when they go out to parties or any other night life events. It is pretty pathetic if you ask me, you can have a lot of fun being extremely sober people! I know its weird right? Gee ["

The effects of drug abuse is a serious deal, you can get STDS/HIV from sharing needles and such while using. Alcohol none the less causes liver issues, in which you could die from obviously... The solution for all this is AA and Rehab centers.

BE ABOVE IT!

who are you?

High school is a time in a teens life where they socially grow and conform to others as well as find themselves and where they stand in this world. Look at today's high schools, you have all different types of cliques.. you have the dorks, the jocks, preps, cheerleaders, the "ghettos". goths, emo, rocker. you say it; its there! It's just amusing to see how in middle school everyone is united and once high school starts you are no longer allowed to associate with that person because of the groups you've conformed with.. So next time you pass by the friend you had in middle school, think.. "who are you?" Are you, you or the person your group tells you to be.

Teen Pregnancy...

So far in this year I've known four, now five, people expecting a child. One who has already given birth, but she is in her 20's.. its still young age. One of my best-friends girlfriend is due in may, he can probably handle it, he is used to raising younger kids within his family.

My perspective towards teen pregnancy is if you are under the age of 18 and you know you can not handle it, then have an abortion. Yet, if you think you can go for it. A lot of you probably disagree with me because it is that persons choice because it is their body but that is how I see it. My best-friend is about four months now, 16, but she has 100% support from my family as well as hers. I mean at least she has a plan regarding school and her future with the child. As well as my other friend who just recently found out she was pregnant and she has no full, blown out plan. All I know is the guy she is going to live the rest of her life with is a big mistake whose society revolves around violence and stupidity.



Teenagers don't think of the consequences of sex until something really does happen. ABSTINENCE people! Statistics state that every year 750,000 teenagers get pregnant and 405,000 abortions are performed. The cost of a child... $400,000! Becoming pregnant makes teens think that is a way to keep their boyfriends forever and it is not. Babies make it more difficult on teens then it already is.

working

a lot of teens now do not depend on their parents anymore. if anything they are more independet; working like crazy. I work two jobs and its so crazy but I need the money we all do all that will come to good cause

relationships woahh

probably the most dificult point with us. guys few of you are the good ones and a lot of you are the bad eggs.
girls- if the dude acts stingy leave em.
guys- if the chicks to crazy your asking for heartt break.
we don't fall in love in high school its pup love. your going to get a bunch of broken hearts.

Collegeee

Don't choose your future based on what other people want you to do; do not listen to your parents of what YOU should do with YOUR life nor listen to your peers either.

My family tells me all the time that I'm not going to go out of state for school but I don't care I'm still going. If you have your future planned and the money to go where you want, then do it.
Never let anyone hold you back for what you wish for.

PARENTS!

They always think that they know everything. They don't! Ignoring them thats the only thing you could really do. You know yourself way better then they do. Parents seem to only care about your life when it turns to get into an arguement am I right? Parents are irritatingggggg!